Evie's Story


“Knowing that we’ve always got that buffer and a bit of chill time really helps, it’s our salvation. There is always help for the whole family.”

Evie's Dad, Simon

Evie lives with her dad, Simon, mum, Caroline and 12 year old sister, Isobel. She has a progressive neurological disorder known as Labrune Syndrome (leukoencephalopathy). Due to the complexity of her condition, it took doctors a long time to be able to give a diagnosis, but it has now been established that Evie’s condition is caused by a faulty gene. Evie is unable to walk or talk and is fed by tube into her stomach.
 

Simon told us:

“It's good to have a diagnosis, but it actually doesn’t change anything. We, as parents, deal with whatever comes our way. Evie’s condition presents similarly to cerebral palsy, but it is progressive and she will likely deteriorate.

“When she started school, she could walk, talk and feed herself. She had splints on her limbs to support her feet, ankles and wrists. As time went on we stopped using the splints because we couldn’t physically get her feet in them. Now she is unable to walk. She used to feed herself with finger foods like pasta, but she has lost the ability to do that. She lost the manual dexterity to be able to pick the food up and get it in her mouth. In addition, she had no concept of how much she should put in her mouth and she could choke. 

“Sometimes when things change I wonder if she is just having a bad day or if this is the next step in her deterioration. She can do very little for herself and her verbal communication is virtually non-existent. This time last year she could talk and chatter away, but now we get maybe one word a day if we are lucky. On a positive note, Evie is an extremely sociable, friendly girl who loves life."
 

“Evie absolutely loves Naomi House. When we left her for the first time we thought, what have we done?! Then we realised she's in a place where there are people who are even better placed to look after her than us! She has so much fun there.

"We say we’re going to Naomi House to see her friends and there's a big smile on her face. We say we’re taking swimming stuff, and there would be another beaming smile on her face."
 

"There are lots of accessible things to do there and she’s got constant one to one attention, which she loves. We know that Evie is going to be looked after well, if we didn’t think that, we wouldn’t let her go. I love going to pick her up because there is always a big smile on her face and you know she's had a good time.  

“Evie is full of beans and everything is a laugh. She has such a positive attitude and she doesn’t moan - she is a little trooper."
 

"She has a good understanding of most things going on around her. She doesn’t think she’s different from the other children, which is lovely. As long as she is involved with the other people and doesn’t get left on her own, then she is ok.  

“As things deteriorate, you think what is going to be next? We can see the effect it has on people who haven’t seen her for a while and it makes us realise that yes, she is getting worse, quickly. We try and shut off that side of things and think right, let’s deal with what we’ve got, otherwise we wouldn’t get through the day. You try not to think long-term about how it's all going to pan out.  

“When Evie stays at Naomi House it just gives us a welcome rest where we can do things with Isobel and be like a ‘normal’ family for a bit. We know she is in a place where she will be looked after by professionals who are there for her 24/7 and don’t have to go off to do the cooking, don’t have to worry about what’s in for tea, and don’t have to worry about another sibling. It eases things for a few days and we can even make a few plans to go out as a couple. It gives us a chance to wind down and ‘breathe’ for a bit. Sometimes we just need a break for a couple of days to re-charge the batteries.

“We live day by day. We try not to think too much about the future - we deal with Evie’s situation on a day to day basis.

"Without Naomi House and the dedication of the staff, we would not get an opportunity to spend some quality time with our other daughter, Isobel, and do activities which other families take for granted.”